is the withdrawal method what is causing me to be sexually frustrated?

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Q. Im not trying to get pregnant.. I probably get sex once a fortnight to once a month, but even when we do have sex I am not satisfied.. I go onto redtube and youporn so that I can try to satisfy myself, but i dont want it to be like this forever... do you think its the withdrawal method? ie; do you think my sexual frustration is all just in my head??? ...help
By the way, i am on the pill.. he just withdraws anyway


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Please understand sexual desire is in the mind not in body. you can have good sex if you have proper foreplay and good company, a happy surrounding and peace of mind. I think you do not have much work and hence having problems. Divert your attention to something else like reading, exercise, cooking, friendship etc and think about sex only when you want it and your companion was available.

Other times please do not think about it since you will be visualizing about sex and expect that from your mate and when he does not respond to it you get frustrated. Pornographic films, shows are exaggerated and are for commerce and they do things which normally others cannot practice. Please remember that they are doing for money and may be doing in so many days filmed and shown as real with gadgets, tricks etc.

Practice yoga and divert attention you will start enjoying sex. Also follow different postures.

Girls why do you look so attractive in heels and stockings and a silk blouse?










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When we wear heels it shifts the dynamics of the gait, in simpler terms it shifts our weight from our heels to our toes which dramaticly changes our posture making our legs and body look more elongated. Not only that when we're forced to be on our toes like that we have to try harder to balance, so in other words if we slouch mostly likely we will fall forwards because of the simple fact that gravity works. Now stocking make our legs look smoother, thinner, and altogether more flawless. I think that silk in general is a turn on because it is most commenly asociated with lingerie and bed sheets. Silk is pretty much a commen sex icon to people. It could also be the fact that men on average are more attracted to shiny or bright objects, it's one of the reasons men tend to be obsessed with new gadgets, the tv, motorcycles, new cars, computers, etc. This is not to say that wemon are not, believe me we are, it just grabs ur attention.




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